Being Possessive is wrong, not always. Before stating my point, I want to tell you about love – the real meaning of love. If you know the real meaning of love, then it’s beautiful because you know how to embrace the beauty than possessing that.
Osho said difference about lust and love,
Lust means how to use something for your happiness; love means your happiness is not at all concerned. Really, lust means how to get something out of it and love means how to give something.
If you do something for your needs then it is not love. If you love someone because you can use them, then it is not love. Love is about others, not you. Like one saying that If you love the flower, you pour the water into it rather than pluck it. In short, If you love something then you begin to think how to make this more beauty.
If you see a beautiful face and you feel love toward the face, the immediate feeling in your consciousness will be how to do something to make this face happy, how to do something to make this man or this woman happy. The concern is not with yourself, the concern is with the other
I love myself. First, you should love yourself then only you can love others, right. What I should do if I’m really love myself? I should do something that makes me happy. I need time to do things that I love. Time is an important one because it is communication device. It makes you communicate your love to what you love.
So, Be Possessive of your time. Sometimes, I don’t like to tell time as a time. Instead, I want to say it moments. Be Possessive of your moments. Through moments you can communicate. Through moments you can savour the joy.
People are frugal in guarding their personal property; but as soon as it comes to squandering time they are most wasteful of the one thing in which it is right to be stingy